The 8 (Dating) Personal Transformation Steps…

The 8 (Dating) Personal Transformation Steps…

this is something I wrote down last year as a guide for guys who are not sure exactly what stage they are on, and also for me as a guide to the progression phrases of what it takes to become 100% consistent with women.

check it out below, and answer the question @ the bottom!

STEP_1 – You have never gone out to night clubs or like to party much, you really don’t have a social life, you work, watch TV and sleep. You don’t date any girls, maybe you have kissed a few girls and would like to have it happen again but your life is really busy right now so you don’t really have the time or energy to go out and meet new people.

STEP_2 – You have gone out to clubs a few times to meet girls with your mates, you didn’t really know what to do, so that made you feel uncomfortable and didn’t want to go out again much, unless of course you just went out for a few drinks with the mates.

STEP_3 – You go out to the clubs & pubs with your mates as many weekends as you can, you don’t really know how to attract the girls you want but you think ‘at least if I go there and hang out maybe one night I will meet a girl who wants me’ – you still mostly spend the night with your male friends drinking beers, standing against the wall watching girls walk past. – You date a few girls every year, maybe even had a girlfriend once or twice but you never really knew how that happened – you would really like to learn how to get more girls into your life.

STEP_4 – You go out to clubs with your mates as many weekends as you can, grab a few drinks and hang out. You have started to learn about how to attract girls and so you go and open a few groups of girls to see what will happen. Not much really happens with the interactions, you make them laugh for a few mins then you tell them you need to go back to your friends – thinking ‘quickly now before they reject me’  You realise that this wasn’t as scary as you thought it would be and decided you will do it again soon, after a few more beers.

STEP_5 – You go to clubs with the intentions to approach girls, you decide your not going to drink this time, you are going out simply to approach and talk to new groups of girls. This is harder than you thought but still you approach a few girls and have conversations, sometimes you ask them for a number and get it, you are now dating a few girls – not the ones you really want but you say ‘well at least I am dating and talking to some new girls – that’s more than my mates.’

STEP_6 – You go out and can walk up to the girls you want to talk with and can connect with them on a level which creates a connection, you don’t get a sexual connection with them as often as you want but you are half way there – at least you are talking to cool girls, you can get numbers and go on a few dates but mostly you are becoming aware of what is going on with the interactions and you can sometimes direct them the way you want… You are still working on creating faster and deeper sexual tension and becoming the leader of your life.

STEP_7 – You go into the clubs with a purpose, you can walk up to any girls now and connect with the ones you want on a sexual level, girls really like to hang out with you and be around you. Getting girls for you is still hard work and takes conscious effort but you are constantly closing girls and going on new dates with the kinds of girls you want at least once a week.

STEP_8 – You walk into the club with a big smile, open the first group of girls you see, talk for a bit, leave them happy, wanting more but you are moving onto the next fun thing already… you are the party, you are on a mission, you can talk to anyone you want, you don’t really care about validating results like hooking up with the hottest girl anymore, you are out purely for your own amusement because you know you can just grab the best girl for you whenever you want and take her home.

Remember to be 100% honest with yourself. so you know where you are and where you are heading.

So honestly WHICH STEP sounds most like YOU right now @ this moment?